Friday, 27 January 2017

Taking Time, Taking Stock

So I accidentally ended up taking some sort of break from blogging, which was totally unintentional. I wish I could say I took time away and achieved many great things, but in reality I've watched lots of Gilmore Girls, (unsuccessfully) pestered Joe to make pie and that's about it. Instead of wallowing in that, I thought I'd go down a tried and tested route and show my time away from the blog through the medium of verbs. 

Making: a mess, everywhere I go, much to Joe's delight.
Cooking: my midweek favourite, enchiladas!
Drinking: copious amounts of tea. Or at least half-cups, as keeping Robin occupied often means my tea ends up cold.
Reading: I just finished reading Cherry by Lindsey Rosin, a really fun YA mostly about friendship, but also about sex. It's pretty much a teenage girl version of American Pie. 

Wanting: some new clothes! I feel a bit like I wear the same 3 BF-friendly tops and all my jeans make me look frumpy. 
Looking: like a gothy bruise after accidentally dyeing my hair black and blue.
Playing: The Simpsons bloody tapped out, thanks to one of my friends casually mentioning it. I get weirdly obsessed with games like this. 
Wasting: time playing that silly game. I don't even watch The Simpsons anymore!

Fixing: up our windows, as it has been getting a bit wild with condensation recently. Adult life, ey?
Deciding: - or at least trying to decide - on what to do with my life after my maternity leave ends.
Wishing: I had a plan for what to do after my maternity leave ends!
Enjoying: the tiny amount of time Joe and I get together.

Waiting: for Dylan to go to bed so I can watch more Gilmore Girls, ha!
Liking: that tulips are back in season.
Wondering: if I'll manage to make a birthday cake for Joe's birthday tomorrow! eep!
Loving: the ten minutes of peace I get when Robin first goes into his bouncer - he quickly loses interest though!
Pondering: what photo I can use for my candidate photo, no pressure or anything. 
Considering: what I should have for tea - we have some pulled pork left but I should really eat something boring and healthy.
Watching: nothing currently, but Joe and I have finally started watching Fargo as we missed it when it was on TV and I'm loving it! 
Hoping: we can watch more Fargo tonight!
Marvelling: at how well Robin is doing - I can't believe I have a five month old baby!
Needing: a bath, I've got a pain in my back that only a relaxing bath can solve.
Smelling: like I need a bath, ha! 
Wearing: a stripy jumper and some tartan pyjama bottoms, going for comfort rather than style, clearly
Noticing: our fridge noticeboard needs updating. 
Knowing: that I should probably be really busy tomorrow but I'm not sure I'll be able to with no one to assist with the boys.
Thinking: about how I need to sort out the passport applications for the boys! Only nine weeks until we go on holiday, so it needs doing sooner rather than later!
Feeling: like I should be doing something important, but not sure what that is exactly at 7:54pm on a Friday... 
Admiring: a picture Joe sent me of the work he did yesterday - he helped his head chef at a fancy event and a local photographer got a really nice shot of them all. 
Buying: some of those no-nails picture hooks because I'm bloody sick of living in a house with no personality to it. 
Getting: an earful from Robin because I've dared to sit down with a cup of tea for five minutes. 
Bookmarking: various cake recipes to try out for Joe's birthday. Going to attempt Gem's individual cakes for the big day, and then Cathryn's Double Chocolate birthday loaf for the meal we're having on Sunday with the extended family. That Joe's a lucky chap. 
Opening: books and then remembering that I have no time to read books! I should be baking/feeding the kids/washing up etc etc etc until the end of time. 
Giggling: (and then denying that I'm giggling) at Dylan telling Robin the story of Jack and the Beanstalk. He keeps bellowing like Brian Blessed, hilarious! 
So there we have it, a few verbs to explain the goings-on around here. Kudos to you if you even managed to read this far! Maybe pick few and let me know how your week is going? 



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Monday, 9 January 2017

2017 - Let's Do This

Like everyone in the entire world, I love wiping the slate clean on January 1st. Now, I'm definitely one of those 'make a load of resolutions, never follow through on them' kind of person. Even when given 1001 days to complete some goals, I still pretty much failed miserably. I'm a learner though, so I've come to realise that maybe I was giving myself some unrealistic things to achieve. One thing I thought would be easy to achieve - building a snowman with Dylan - was thwarted by global warming as it didn't snow the entire 1001 days of my quest. This time around, I'm going simple with my goals for 2017. 
Work Out What I Want To Do 
Okay, so this sounds like a big hitter but hear me out. I'm still on my maternity leave, and theoretically, I could stay off until August. My work contract actually ended when I left to have Robin, so I'm technically jobless. Since leaving university, I have always strived to be in work, and sometimes this resulted in jobs I didn't really have any passion for. I'd like to take the time off that I have to either find out which career I could have to use my skills or go back to university and start my Masters. 
Work Out Who I Want To Be
Sort of related to the above, I feel like I've sort of lost my personality a bit. Since becoming Dylan's mama at 19, and then Joe's wife at 21, I worry I've become two-dimensional. Although I loved university and made some great friends, I wasn't able to join in with freshers or things like that. Now that I'm sort of floating about in life, I'd like to work more on myself. I've already started this a little bit in 2016, but I'd like to really go with it this year. 
Sort Our Finances
Despite loading myself with thousands of university debt, I've not been able to get a decently paid job. When I finally Work Out What I Want To Do, I hope that it would be in something that pays more than the minimum. I'd like to *finally* clear myself of my overdraft, and start to create a little savings pot for us. I like to think that this would be achievable, but I guess it relies on Goal 1 working out okay. 
Blog More! 
I love blogging, and I was convinced that I'd have heaps of time for blogging with a newborn baby around(!) but clearly that wasn't the case - I actually ended up posting around half the amount I did in 2015. I'm going to start typing out blog post ideas on my phone, taking photos in bulk and perhaps relaunching the ol' youtube again. 
So, four kind-of ambiguous goals that I'd like to achieve in 2017. Totally doable, amiright? 
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Saturday, 7 January 2017

The 2017 Goodreads Challenge



Back in the day, I would set a reading challenge and happily surpass my goal. In 2014, I pledged to read 20 books, and I read 22. In 2015, I set a goal for 25 books and ended up reading 31 books. So, riding on a high - I thought I'd easily read 30 books. I ended up reading 20 books. A paltry 67% of my goal. This year, I have decided to lower my reading expectations - being on maternity leave doesn't mean I have endless hours of reading to do, but endless hours of entertaining a baby, keeping him fed and looking after his older brother too. As much of a joy this is, it really scuppers my reading time. 
I've decided that this year I will aim to read 12 books. That's a book a month and should hopefully be pretty doable. I've got a few books on my kindle that I've been meaning to read, but I haven't been picking it up since I stopped commuting to work. Ideally, I'd read six books from there and six physical books from my TBR shelf. As part of my 30 before 30 list, I'd like to read 10 books from 1991 so I'm hoping to actually find a book from 1991 that I want to read. It's a bit of a struggle so far. Any suggestions there would be greatly appreciated! If you've struggled with a reading goal, or just want to read a bit more, I've listed some of my top tips below! 

  • Always have a book with you! It might sound obvious, but if I had a small paperback or my kindle on me, I was more likely to read on the go. You could even download apps for this if you don't have a kindle device!
  • Carve time out of your schedule. If you think you're too busy to read, put a note in your diary that at 8pm, or perhaps during your lunch break, you have a meeting with your book. That way, you're more likely to actually read it, and won't be tempted to make another meeting.
  • Read when you go to bed - a classic, but it works! Pop a book on your bedside table, and even if you just read one chapter a night, it's better than nothing!
  • Get a library card. Some people don't want to spend upwards of £10 on a book if they don't think they'll read them or even like them. Visiting your local library is free, and they often stock new books as well as the old favourites. Most libraries are part of a county group too, so if there's a book you want but they don't have it, they can usually get it sent in for you.
  • Read what you want - it can sometimes feel overwhelming to read the latest book with the biggest buzz around it, but I've often found that this is disappointing for me. If you know you love SciFi, reading the latest romance novel won't float your boat! 
If you're on goodreads, let's be friends and we can help each other along! 
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